Comments on: First drafts https://lauravanderkam.com/2021/08/first-drafts/ Writer, Author, Speaker Fri, 27 Aug 2021 19:44:04 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.7.2 By: Kenia https://lauravanderkam.com/2021/08/first-drafts/#comment-250230 Fri, 27 Aug 2021 19:44:04 +0000 https://lauravanderkam.com/?p=18162#comment-250230 In reply to Amy.

Amy, you are not alone in feeling overall fatigue and stress from the past year and a half. I *highly* suggest giving yourself a lot of space in your schedule (maybe a “sabbath” afternoon/day each week) to unplug, and fill the time with both loved ones as well as solitude (preferably doing non-mental input things: staring at the clouds, going on a nature walk/hike, creating something, building/fixing something, etc.). Not only are both of these things absolutely vital for restoring ourselves after such stressful times, but giving yourself this relaxing time would be a great way to celebrate–you’ve earned it!!

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By: Kamala https://lauravanderkam.com/2021/08/first-drafts/#comment-249938 Fri, 27 Aug 2021 01:48:08 +0000 https://lauravanderkam.com/?p=18162#comment-249938 Congratulations Laura

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By: Kenia https://lauravanderkam.com/2021/08/first-drafts/#comment-249932 Thu, 26 Aug 2021 22:17:42 +0000 https://lauravanderkam.com/?p=18162#comment-249932 In reply to Laura Vanderkam.

“It won’t be much, but might be enough to change the narrative…”
I think you hit on a good point there. I should focus on small wins–very tiny aims. I have these grand ideas of what my work should look like, so perfectionism is beginning to look like the culprit….but even sitting down for “just something small” can feel impossible. I think I may have to look for an accountability buddy….

P.S. – I really look forward to your new book! Your writing has directly impacted my life in positive ways. Thank you. 🙂

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By: Amy https://lauravanderkam.com/2021/08/first-drafts/#comment-249928 Thu, 26 Aug 2021 18:50:09 +0000 https://lauravanderkam.com/?p=18162#comment-249928 Congratulations! I’ve reached a few milestones lately that I also felt a bit ‘blah’ about… I expected to feel a great sense of relief and pride at finishing each of the things, and yet all I could focus on was what was next on my task list. I’ve chalked it up to overall fatigue from the past year of covid-related-stressors, but would love to hear about any tips other readers have for celebrating our personal successes (especially when we are a team of 1).

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By: Vivi Steinfeld https://lauravanderkam.com/2021/08/first-drafts/#comment-249925 Thu, 26 Aug 2021 17:26:07 +0000 https://lauravanderkam.com/?p=18162#comment-249925 It was great being part of the survey because I learned so much and I look forward to reading the final results of this great project.

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By: Caroline Starr Rose https://lauravanderkam.com/2021/08/first-drafts/#comment-249923 Thu, 26 Aug 2021 17:06:03 +0000 https://lauravanderkam.com/?p=18162#comment-249923 Congratulations! I say the exact same thing: the something from something phase of writing is much easier than the something from nothing phase. Even if I throw most of it out, I’m not starting at nothing again.

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By: Elisabeth https://lauravanderkam.com/2021/08/first-drafts/#comment-249922 Thu, 26 Aug 2021 16:51:26 +0000 https://lauravanderkam.com/?p=18162#comment-249922 Yay! I enjoyed participating in the survey element of your research on the book. Can’t say I’ve quite reached the “Tranquility” stage yet, but return to your suggestions over and over!

Can’t wait until this hits shelves!! And also, very impressive you stayed on schedule with summer events, renos, and a toddler. Gold star.

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By: Marie https://lauravanderkam.com/2021/08/first-drafts/#comment-249921 Thu, 26 Aug 2021 16:46:36 +0000 https://lauravanderkam.com/?p=18162#comment-249921 Congrats! Looking forward to pre-ordering!

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By: Kara https://lauravanderkam.com/2021/08/first-drafts/#comment-249915 Thu, 26 Aug 2021 14:17:51 +0000 https://lauravanderkam.com/?p=18162#comment-249915 Congratulations! I was part of your survey group so I’m eager to read the final product. Until then, enjoy celebrating this milestone!

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By: Connie C https://lauravanderkam.com/2021/08/first-drafts/#comment-249908 Thu, 26 Aug 2021 12:57:35 +0000 https://lauravanderkam.com/?p=18162#comment-249908 Woot! Congrats!

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