Comments on: Look who is one! https://lauravanderkam.com/2020/12/look-who-is-one/ Writer, Author, Speaker Mon, 04 Jan 2021 15:00:20 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.7.2 By: Lori C https://lauravanderkam.com/2020/12/look-who-is-one/#comment-184224 Mon, 04 Jan 2021 15:00:20 +0000 https://lauravanderkam.com/?p=17875#comment-184224 In reply to Laura Vanderkam.

Ha! I didn’t think about that. Seeing my boys act as big siblings, and interact in general with a baby will be a treat. It’s been funny to hear the questions and comments from them so far. My 5 year olds response to the news was “oh great, another sibling to take care of.” I almost fell off my chair laughing.

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By: Laura Vanderkam https://lauravanderkam.com/2020/12/look-who-is-one/#comment-184218 Mon, 04 Jan 2021 14:07:58 +0000 https://lauravanderkam.com/?p=17875#comment-184218 In reply to Lori C.

@Lori C- thank you! And congrats to you on expecting #3! I found Seraphine and ordered a few things from them – just to round out my existing maternity wardrobe. I did wind up using the exact same pump (Madela pump-in-style). I do feel like the pregnancy was harder, and I had some complications that had never happened the first four times, but in general it’s hard to know what is age related and what is just being tired from caring for four other kids! Probably a combo of both.
What has been really cool for me this time is having older kids who can actually be helpful, and who are understanding of the fact that a baby is a baby. A 3-year-old gets mad when a baby knocks over her blocks. A 9-year-old will build a tower precisely so it can be knocked down.

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By: Nicole Vinson https://lauravanderkam.com/2020/12/look-who-is-one/#comment-183997 Sat, 02 Jan 2021 12:34:25 +0000 https://lauravanderkam.com/?p=17875#comment-183997 Happy Birthday! I liked following this year’s posts! Wish I would have read this post when I was worried about my 1 year old not running like the neighbor kids. Your blog is always full of good reminders for sanity on topics of kids, work and life!

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By: Sam https://lauravanderkam.com/2020/12/look-who-is-one/#comment-183793 Thu, 31 Dec 2020 15:15:03 +0000 https://lauravanderkam.com/?p=17875#comment-183793 Exciting milestone! I agree, the first steps seemed so tentative, it was hard to say exactly when it was walking-walking. It’s definitely more of a process, which I wasn’t expecting. For a while my daughter would only take steps when her hands were full and she couldn’t crawl.

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By: Lori C https://lauravanderkam.com/2020/12/look-who-is-one/#comment-183778 Thu, 31 Dec 2020 13:15:40 +0000 https://lauravanderkam.com/?p=17875#comment-183778 Congrats on surviving the first year! I felt like the first year was the hardest for both my kids, although now that they are growing up they all can feel hard in one way or another. 🙂 I have become particularly interested in your posts about pregnancy (and Henry) as I recently learned that I am pregnant at 40 with baby #3. My youngest will be 4 when this one is born, so I feel like I have been out of the game for a bit. I am curious about any insights you had the 5th time around… about pregnancy at/over 40, maternity must haves, and any new products you thought were worth investing in. I recall in one of the podcases you mentioned still favoring your old pump, so perhaps not much has changed? Happy Birthday to Henry and congrats to you mom!

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By: Amanda Rogers https://lauravanderkam.com/2020/12/look-who-is-one/#comment-183685 Wed, 30 Dec 2020 19:40:20 +0000 https://lauravanderkam.com/?p=17875#comment-183685 100% agree about the walking. My husband and I (who both work) were talking about this. Definitely a process and hard to say what was *the* first step. Doesn’t bother me at all that I may have missed the very first one. Congrats on this milestone!

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