Comments on: Time makeover: Make art when you can. Relax when you can’t. https://lauravanderkam.com/2016/09/make-art-when-you-can-relax-when-you-cant/ Writer, Author, Speaker Tue, 17 Apr 2018 14:02:57 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.7.2 By: Maureen Nevers https://lauravanderkam.com/2016/09/make-art-when-you-can-relax-when-you-cant/#comment-32949 Wed, 14 Sep 2016 04:53:02 +0000 http://lauravanderkam.staging.wpengine.com/?p=6250#comment-32949 Thought provoking…I have struggled recently with impatience and frustration and somewhat of a lack of interest/motivation around creative art activities. I would have a block of time – an evening or Saturday – to get into my studio and really make things happen, but somehow it never went well. Coincidentally, I was working on my work/personal ‘balance’ began a ‘sleep first’ plan where I prioritized getting enough sleep as the #1 activity for me, and then when/if I achieved that each day I would identify what else I wanted to do. This exercise in my ‘real life’ has yielded some very positive results. One is the realization that taking advantage of these ‘opportunities’ was actually a PRESSURE on me, not a pleasure. I felt like I HAD to go and make and sew when I had that time, but sometimes I didn’t want to do that. Since my one measure of ‘being creative’ was time in my studio, I felt like I had failed. So last week I gave myself permission to NOT do the expected thing. I turned off my machine and immediately felt relief. Instead, I watched some Creativebug classes and did handwork in my bedroom and had a great night! So it feels like that is connected, for me anyway, to your message in this post. Thanks, both of you, for the in-depth walk through your process.

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By: Kim https://lauravanderkam.com/2016/09/make-art-when-you-can-relax-when-you-cant/#comment-32948 Sun, 11 Sep 2016 10:27:46 +0000 http://lauravanderkam.staging.wpengine.com/?p=6250#comment-32948 I notice the same effect when I had a very rough night with my small children and seriously lack sleep. If I let go of my expectations and just take my time and go from one task to the other, I am so productive! Most of the time, I get more done than when I’m well rested.

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By: Emily https://lauravanderkam.com/2016/09/make-art-when-you-can-relax-when-you-cant/#comment-32947 Fri, 09 Sep 2016 23:41:38 +0000 http://lauravanderkam.staging.wpengine.com/?p=6250#comment-32947 In reply to lauravanderkam.

Great suggestions, thank you. I’ll keep an eye out for that blog post for sure. Let me know if you need any raw timesheet data from a novelist/teacher with two school-age kids!

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By: Jennie Evans https://lauravanderkam.com/2016/09/make-art-when-you-can-relax-when-you-cant/#comment-32946 Fri, 09 Sep 2016 20:02:14 +0000 http://lauravanderkam.staging.wpengine.com/?p=6250#comment-32946 In reply to lauravanderkam.

I find myself in this position as well. Teacher day job 7:30-4:00. I run an independent editing business on he side, but would like to spend more time writing as well. Short stories not novels. (Hats off to those who can write 50k+ words!) I have been doing a time study for awhile, and plan on participating more formally on this upcoming week. I am curious to your thoughts on this as well.

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By: lauravanderkam https://lauravanderkam.com/2016/09/make-art-when-you-can-relax-when-you-cant/#comment-32945 Fri, 09 Sep 2016 19:23:12 +0000 http://lauravanderkam.staging.wpengine.com/?p=6250#comment-32945 In reply to lauravanderkam.

btw- I’m hoping to do a blog post on this coming out of some other reader makeovers that are in the works.

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By: lauravanderkam https://lauravanderkam.com/2016/09/make-art-when-you-can-relax-when-you-cant/#comment-32944 Fri, 09 Sep 2016 19:22:52 +0000 http://lauravanderkam.staging.wpengine.com/?p=6250#comment-32944 In reply to Emily.

@Emily- that’s a good question, when to do any sort of sideline or creative work when you have a 9-5 type job (or 8-4 or whatever). I have seen a few things work. One is to build it in as part of the morning routine. Particularly people who start work later find that this amounts to paying themselves first. If you don’t have to be at work until 9, you can do a lot between 6-8 a.m. four days per week. If that doesn’t work (and it doesn’t for many people because they work early or they have young kids who are up at the crack of dawn) another good option for people is to carve out two blocks. One evening a week you get a sitter or get your partner to cover, or if you don’t have kids you clear the calendar and find a good spot to work and go for it. And then one weekend spot, with the same strategy. 6:30-10:30 a.m. Saturday morning can be good for many people too — many households aren’t doing much of importance before then. Assigning two longer slots means you get the benefit of long, focused hours (good for fiction!) but choosing two days means you can let yourself relax the other 5. It’s not always something you feel guilty about not doing, because there’s a time for it, and now is not that time.

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By: Jennie Evans https://lauravanderkam.com/2016/09/make-art-when-you-can-relax-when-you-cant/#comment-32943 Fri, 09 Sep 2016 17:50:18 +0000 http://lauravanderkam.staging.wpengine.com/?p=6250#comment-32943 This was indeed timely. I am at a point where I’m starting a new venture and it is going slower than I wish. Part of that is anxiety on my part procrastinating details that are hindering progress which then leads to restlessness and an overall sense of frustration. I am putting off important work from fear, but then get caught in this vicious cycle. The reminder to take it easy on myself was much needed today!

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By: Emily https://lauravanderkam.com/2016/09/make-art-when-you-can-relax-when-you-cant/#comment-32942 Fri, 09 Sep 2016 16:08:29 +0000 http://lauravanderkam.staging.wpengine.com/?p=6250#comment-32942 This post comes at a perfect time! As a novelist with a teaching day job, I’m always working to manage my time in the way that serves my art and my career. I was actually planning on reaching out to you to see if you ever did time makeovers or features for those of us who count creative work as part of their regular routine (which I know you do, too). So thank you for this. Any more tips or strategies for working artists would be much appreciated. PS: I’m on week three of tracking my time with your method, and really enjoying the process as well as what I learn from it.

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By: lauravanderkam https://lauravanderkam.com/2016/09/make-art-when-you-can-relax-when-you-cant/#comment-32941 Fri, 09 Sep 2016 16:07:14 +0000 http://lauravanderkam.staging.wpengine.com/?p=6250#comment-32941 In reply to Laureen Marchand.

@Laureen – thank YOU! I appreciate your letting me include your story. It will definitely be helpful to others.

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By: Laureen Marchand https://lauravanderkam.com/2016/09/make-art-when-you-can-relax-when-you-cant/#comment-32940 Fri, 09 Sep 2016 15:29:43 +0000 http://lauravanderkam.staging.wpengine.com/?p=6250#comment-32940 How wonderful to read this, and to be reflected back to myself. I almost wept from gratitude at your generosity and helping me put things into perspective. For some reason, seeing myself better wasn’t what I expected when I started time tracking. I thought it would be all about schedules, and never imagined it was also about how we feel about schedules. Thank you for this gift and for the many gifts you bring. You give me courage.

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