Comments on: Best of Both Worlds podcast: Mailbag part 2 https://lauravanderkam.com/2021/09/best-of-both-worlds-podcast-mailbag-part-2/ Writer, Author, Speaker Wed, 15 Sep 2021 18:04:50 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.7.2 By: ARC https://lauravanderkam.com/2021/09/best-of-both-worlds-podcast-mailbag-part-2/#comment-258005 Wed, 15 Sep 2021 18:04:50 +0000 https://lauravanderkam.com/?p=18182#comment-258005 In reply to Marie.

Hi fellow twice-accelerated person! I love finding this out about people because I felt pretty alone at the time 😛 I agree, it was great for me academically and I did finally find “my people” in college, where there were 4 others who started at 16 and really it wasn’t a big deal.

For anyone homeschooling highly gifted kids, I want to give a shout out to the Davidson online individual classes (Explore program). My daughter took 4 of them over 2 years and they were all excellent.

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By: ARC https://lauravanderkam.com/2021/09/best-of-both-worlds-podcast-mailbag-part-2/#comment-258004 Wed, 15 Sep 2021 18:00:47 +0000 https://lauravanderkam.com/?p=18182#comment-258004 In reply to Diana Owen.

For sure! We went to a seminar about this when my daughter was 4, and the great advice we got there was to see if there was a ‘cohort’ of kids with roughly similar birthdays (within a couple of months). That works for either accelerating or holding back, so your kid doesn’t stick out. My kids were on the older side, but their CA public school suggested acceleration, and now one is the youngest, but only by a few weeks. The other is at a school with a bunch of other 11yo 7th graders, so it works out just fine. I thought that was a good way to help decide too.

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By: Laura Vanderkam https://lauravanderkam.com/2021/09/best-of-both-worlds-podcast-mailbag-part-2/#comment-257839 Wed, 15 Sep 2021 10:45:24 +0000 https://lauravanderkam.com/?p=18182#comment-257839 In reply to Marie.

@Marie – hey, glad you found my work back then! A very early example of it! And yes, they are wonderful people and the Davidson Institute is a wonderful place.

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By: Marie https://lauravanderkam.com/2021/09/best-of-both-worlds-podcast-mailbag-part-2/#comment-257609 Tue, 14 Sep 2021 17:26:56 +0000 https://lauravanderkam.com/?p=18182#comment-257609 Loved the segue into acceleration — and learning that my intro to your writing began back in 2005, Laura, with Genius Denied! Thank you for writing this book and sharing your perspective on acceleration. I’m a now-30-something who was twice accelerated during elementary and middle school, and agree that this can be a great option for kids who would otherwise be terribly bored in school. The downsides that are often worried about — driver’s licenses, dating, sports — were minor compared to the benefits of being with my peers and engaged in school. The Davidson Institute is a wonderful place — thank you Laura for working with them!

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By: Diana Owen https://lauravanderkam.com/2021/09/best-of-both-worlds-podcast-mailbag-part-2/#comment-257546 Tue, 14 Sep 2021 14:17:34 +0000 https://lauravanderkam.com/?p=18182#comment-257546 Hi! Love the podcast, thanks for all the helpful tips! For the listener who was wondering about “red-shirting” I’ve heard the best place to start is to talk to the child’s preschool teacher or school director, if the child is in preschool (similarly a daycare provider may be able to offer some guidance). Teachers and school directors have a lot of experience helping parents make these decisions — and while ultimately it’s up to the parents — they might be able to offer some good advice.

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