Comments on: Try something speculative https://lauravanderkam.com/2020/07/try-something-speculative/ Writer, Author, Speaker Sat, 01 Aug 2020 21:49:26 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.7.2 By: Liv Wu https://lauravanderkam.com/2020/07/try-something-speculative/#comment-150950 Sat, 01 Aug 2020 21:49:26 +0000 https://lauravanderkam.com/?p=17752#comment-150950 Hey Laura, This is a great idea. I’ve been on maternity leave for the last 3 months (wrote to you about new motherhood under pandemic as a potential topic for BOBW:)). Baby and I are set into a good routine, but as you said I feel like every day is the same: feeding, changing diapers, playing with baby, put him to sleep and repeat…

I certainly appreciate the precious time at home to take care of him, but also desperate in need of some stimulation or changing of pace. I work in brand management / marketing where everyday is so different at work which is why I love it.

Projects I’ve been thinking about is something like reaching out to 2 acquaintances a week to keep my network active..definitely need to think of some new ideas:)

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By: WG https://lauravanderkam.com/2020/07/try-something-speculative/#comment-150900 Sat, 01 Aug 2020 18:08:38 +0000 https://lauravanderkam.com/?p=17752#comment-150900 In reply to Laura Vanderkam.

Ah, got it. I usually do that to avoid any surprises. But you’re right that it increases chances of success.

I have a little bit of unexpected work time, and I’m trying to figure out the balance of client development activity and purely personal ventures, like writing. Much to think about.

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By: Laura Vanderkam https://lauravanderkam.com/2020/07/try-something-speculative/#comment-150692 Fri, 31 Jul 2020 17:25:55 +0000 https://lauravanderkam.com/?p=17752#comment-150692 In reply to Rebekah.

@Rebekah – yep, often worth a shot. I have definitely had projects that have gone no where. Though sometimes they lead to other things, even if it wasn’t what I was looking for!

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By: Laura Vanderkam https://lauravanderkam.com/2020/07/try-something-speculative/#comment-150691 Fri, 31 Jul 2020 17:25:05 +0000 https://lauravanderkam.com/?p=17752#comment-150691 In reply to WG.

@WG – meaning both parties agree to it prior to the official introduction being made. I write or call you and say “Hey, WG, can I introduce you to Beth?” You say yes, and I also write Beth asking if it would be OK to be introduced to you. Then, when I send the official note, I know that you both are OK with it, interested, and have the time to follow up. Just much more effective!

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By: WG https://lauravanderkam.com/2020/07/try-something-speculative/#comment-150688 Fri, 31 Jul 2020 17:20:18 +0000 https://lauravanderkam.com/?p=17752#comment-150688 What’s a double opt-in introduction?

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By: Rebekah https://lauravanderkam.com/2020/07/try-something-speculative/#comment-150681 Fri, 31 Jul 2020 16:54:13 +0000 https://lauravanderkam.com/?p=17752#comment-150681 Love this, Laura. I like to think of it as “stirring up the pond”. Life can feel stagnant if we’re not growing, so why not mix things up a little and see what happens? I’ve been applying this to my work as a life coach. I’ve had such resistance to social media but finally decided to jump on the bandwagon a few months ago. It’s been fascinating, and has already – even in such a short amount of time – opened up new relationships and opportunities that I never would have had if I hadn’t decided to put myself out there. It’s absolutely fascinating. I’ve also stirred some things up that really haven’t gone anywhere, so you never know. But it’s absolutely worth a shot, as you said.

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