Comments on: The disciplined writing life https://lauravanderkam.com/2012/10/disciplined-writing-life/ Writer, Author, Speaker Wed, 07 Nov 2012 13:33:08 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.7.2 By: Laura https://lauravanderkam.com/2012/10/disciplined-writing-life/#comment-22662 Wed, 07 Nov 2012 13:33:08 +0000 http://localhost:8888/?p=2839#comment-22662 In reply to Karen.

@Karen – perfectionism is deadly in writing. At least for me (but I don’t think many folks reading what I write would accuse me of it…) I was pondering this when reading one of John McPhee’s recent essays in the New Yorker about his career — he recalls an editor spending an incredible amount of time on one piece as the magazine hurtled toward the closing deadline. He asked how he could do that and the editor said “it takes as long as it takes.” I know what he’s getting at…but it can’t also take as long as it takes. Sometimes you do have to be done! I’m glad I learned to write in a newspaper context. You really, literally, did have to be done at 7 p.m. because otherwise there was going to be a blank spot on the page the next day.

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By: Laura https://lauravanderkam.com/2012/10/disciplined-writing-life/#comment-22661 Wed, 07 Nov 2012 13:30:29 +0000 http://localhost:8888/?p=2839#comment-22661 In reply to Leah Wendt.

@Leah- thanks so much! I think it is important to finish one book, and then the next one will be easier to write and better. I’ve learned a lot from writing 4 novels that nothing has happened with. And over time, when one keeps writing, one’s audience grows and you’re better prepared to seize opportunities. Good luck with finishing! And then revising 🙂

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By: Leah Wendt https://lauravanderkam.com/2012/10/disciplined-writing-life/#comment-22660 Wed, 07 Nov 2012 04:11:31 +0000 http://localhost:8888/?p=2839#comment-22660 Laura, you and I are about the same age, I think. You are doing what I want to do: write for a living. I’ve talked about writing since I was 6 years old. I dabbled in writing for much of my youth. Now, I am a writing teacher. And I am 40,544 words into my first novel that I am forcing myself to finish. I’ve written poems, a short play, a few short stories, three zillion notes, and have never finished writing an entire book. My supportive spouse keeps telling me that if I could just finish this first book, then things would fall into place for me as a writer. I believe he is right.

I read your posts for inspiration – as a writer, as a working mother.

Keep writing and we’ll keep reading!

Thank you,
Leah

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By: Sabrina https://lauravanderkam.com/2012/10/disciplined-writing-life/#comment-22659 Mon, 29 Oct 2012 14:25:34 +0000 http://localhost:8888/?p=2839#comment-22659 In reply to Laura.

I’m doing NaNoWriMo as well. I participated last year and loved it! I was hoping to have my book edited and published by now but doesn’t look like it’s going to happen. The editor has given it back to me so that I can add more ‘stuff’.

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By: Karen https://lauravanderkam.com/2012/10/disciplined-writing-life/#comment-22658 Thu, 25 Oct 2012 14:49:22 +0000 http://localhost:8888/?p=2839#comment-22658 In reply to Michael.

I would recommend Hillary Rettig’s book “The 7 Secrets of the Prolific.” It’s a little bit of a different frame than a lot of these types of books, but I think it ultimately comes down to discipline. I think her attitude toward writing is quite similar to Laura’s in how practical it is. She writes about removing obstacles and blocks to getting writing done, and about changing perfectionist attitudes that are holding you back as a writer. She has a section about the problems with having an overly romantic view of writing.

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By: Karen https://lauravanderkam.com/2012/10/disciplined-writing-life/#comment-22657 Thu, 25 Oct 2012 14:41:50 +0000 http://localhost:8888/?p=2839#comment-22657 In reply to Laura.

Yes, I am doing it. I decided to this week and signed up and have been reading the forums. My daughter did the young writers’ program last year. Her 7th grade English teacher had an after school club for interested kids. My daughter was one of the few kids who finished. She wrote 50,000 words, which I thought was very impressive for a 12-year-old. I messed around with writing something and tried to support her while she was doing it, but I didn’t come even close. I wasn’t very disciplined ;-). And, I was also working full-time then. Now that I’m on a break from full-time work for pay, this seems like the perfect time to give it a serious go. The writing every day part isn’t a big issue for me, but the organization and planning is where I get tripped up. Things like outlines and synopses are where I need the most discipline to actually do them.

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By: Whitney https://lauravanderkam.com/2012/10/disciplined-writing-life/#comment-22656 Thu, 25 Oct 2012 13:44:51 +0000 http://localhost:8888/?p=2839#comment-22656 I had another thought: if you do decide to do something in the realm of accountability, either with a partner or group, it might be a fun side project to look at what current research or popular thought says about accountability versus what you might find works best.

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By: Laura https://lauravanderkam.com/2012/10/disciplined-writing-life/#comment-22655 Thu, 25 Oct 2012 13:39:07 +0000 http://localhost:8888/?p=2839#comment-22655 In reply to Michael.

@Michael – thanks! Many of the usual self-help books are ultimately about discipline: 7 Habits, for instance. I hope my novel is awesome too. But first I have to write it.

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By: Michael https://lauravanderkam.com/2012/10/disciplined-writing-life/#comment-22654 Thu, 25 Oct 2012 08:53:04 +0000 http://localhost:8888/?p=2839#comment-22654 I am looking forward to the debut of your novel. I can only imagine how awesome your novel will be. I want some advice and tips on self-discpline. Can you direct me to pertinent blogs or relevant books. Best of wishes

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By: Joy Weese Moll https://lauravanderkam.com/2012/10/disciplined-writing-life/#comment-22653 Thu, 25 Oct 2012 02:43:40 +0000 http://localhost:8888/?p=2839#comment-22653 I’m amazed at what great lengths I’ll go to for a check mark on a grid. I generally set several goals a month that require near-daily effort. I check off each day that I do them and generally reward myself for getting 20 or 25 check marks in a month. But, most of the time, it’s the check mark not the reward that is really motivating. This works well for me because it’s a flexible approach to discipline.

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