Comments on: Day 3 thread (2025) https://lauravanderkam.com/2025/01/day-3-thread-2025/ Writer, Author, Speaker Thu, 16 Jan 2025 21:54:49 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.7.2 By: Laura Vanderkam https://lauravanderkam.com/2025/01/day-3-thread-2025/#comment-588057 Thu, 16 Jan 2025 21:54:49 +0000 https://lauravanderkam.com/?p=19884#comment-588057 In reply to Rebecca Plasters.

@Rebecca – those are both important and very useful observations!

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By: Rebecca Plasters https://lauravanderkam.com/2025/01/day-3-thread-2025/#comment-588050 Thu, 16 Jan 2025 21:45:30 +0000 https://lauravanderkam.com/?p=19884#comment-588050 How eye-opening this is! In these few short days I’ve had at least 2 revelations…… 1) I spend way too much time trying to sleep/not sleeping and 2) I’m spending way too much time on a volunteer activity that I don’t even really want to do. So…… I’m going to embark on some sleep hygiene measures and I’m going to gradually and gracefully back out of this volunteer thing as soon as I finish what I’m already committed to doing.

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By: Laura Vanderkam https://lauravanderkam.com/2025/01/day-3-thread-2025/#comment-587994 Thu, 16 Jan 2025 20:45:09 +0000 https://lauravanderkam.com/?p=19884#comment-587994 In reply to Molly.

@Molly – I do like the idea of having such a complete data set. I kind of wished I’d started a few months earlier so I would have had the 10-year-old’s entire life, but hey…

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By: Molly https://lauravanderkam.com/2025/01/day-3-thread-2025/#comment-587750 Thu, 16 Jan 2025 17:12:37 +0000 https://lauravanderkam.com/?p=19884#comment-587750 If you are still time tracking in 8 years, you will have a complete record of (basically) your new 10 year’s entire childhood and how much time you spent with him!!! And if you are still tracking in 13 years, you will have a complete record of how much time you spent with your little guy! That is SO COOL! I feel like that would be SUCH interesting data – how much time do we really spend with our kids? Of course I am applying this to my own life and already feeling guilty that I have probably spent a bit more time with certain kids than others just by nature of life, activities, other kids in the home, etc. So cool to have that data tho!!

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By: Laura Vanderkam https://lauravanderkam.com/2025/01/day-3-thread-2025/#comment-587516 Thu, 16 Jan 2025 12:49:30 +0000 https://lauravanderkam.com/?p=19884#comment-587516 In reply to LeeAnn T.

@LeeAnn – yep, there is a lot of amorphous kid care time. I put “kids etc.” on a lot of entries!

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By: Laura Vanderkam https://lauravanderkam.com/2025/01/day-3-thread-2025/#comment-587515 Thu, 16 Jan 2025 12:49:00 +0000 https://lauravanderkam.com/?p=19884#comment-587515 In reply to Yukun Wu.

@Yukun – excellent!

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By: Laura Vanderkam https://lauravanderkam.com/2025/01/day-3-thread-2025/#comment-587514 Thu, 16 Jan 2025 12:48:43 +0000 https://lauravanderkam.com/?p=19884#comment-587514 In reply to Frank.

@Frank – that sounds like a good system. Since I work from myself, and work from home, my laptop is available at night and on weekends, so I just enter the info in same as always. If I’m going somewhere for 24 hours and don’t want to bring my computer I will just email myself notes on how I spent my time and reconstruct it on my laptop later. I can also remember my time pretty well after 10 years of doing this so if it’s been less than 24 hours since I last checked in I can almost universally recall what I did. (I basically have a time tracker going in my brain, if that makes sense…)

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By: LeeAnn T https://lauravanderkam.com/2025/01/day-3-thread-2025/#comment-587488 Thu, 16 Jan 2025 11:52:32 +0000 https://lauravanderkam.com/?p=19884#comment-587488 I appreciate your notes about the time with the 5 year old that was a little bit of everything. Our set of 5 ranges from 15 down to twin 7 year olds and I find that after they’re home from school, the time is very splintered. Everyone needs something and those somethings are usually just a couple minutes long. It makes it a challenge to track what I actually DID besides “help kids with what they needed”. Encouraging to know I’m not the only one. And that this is a season.

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By: Yukun Wu https://lauravanderkam.com/2025/01/day-3-thread-2025/#comment-586929 Thu, 16 Jan 2025 04:14:02 +0000 https://lauravanderkam.com/?p=19884#comment-586929 I actually don’t have much time wasted starting from Day 2.
The time that I spent on working is basically the same as I expected.

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By: Frank https://lauravanderkam.com/2025/01/day-3-thread-2025/#comment-586922 Thu, 16 Jan 2025 04:07:14 +0000 https://lauravanderkam.com/?p=19884#comment-586922 Nice to see the Christmas tree up so long. Some friends in the south of Italy keep them up until Candlemas on 2nd February! Always good to prolong the Christmas cheer 🙂

I’m curious how everyone else here is doing the actual entering. Opening up the spreadsheet is easy when you’re working at a computer, but less so e.g. on the weekends, or on holiday. I managed to save Laura’s spreadsheet in Numbers format so I can open it on my phone (and it syncs over iCloud, back to the computer). It can be a bit finicky using the spreadsheet on the phone, but is sometimes much easier than opening up a computer. I think I probably do about 50% of the entering on a phone. I do wish someone would make an app for this! 🙂

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