Comments on: Friday planning and the spinning plates https://lauravanderkam.com/2021/01/friday-planning-and-the-spinning-plates/ Writer, Author, Speaker Tue, 02 Feb 2021 12:37:54 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.7.2 By: Ellie https://lauravanderkam.com/2021/01/friday-planning-and-the-spinning-plates/#comment-188865 Tue, 02 Feb 2021 12:37:54 +0000 https://lauravanderkam.com/?p=17907#comment-188865 In reply to Laura Vanderkam.

Ha! That could be more manageable indeed… thanks for the tip! šŸ™‚

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By: Kersti https://lauravanderkam.com/2021/01/friday-planning-and-the-spinning-plates/#comment-188684 Mon, 01 Feb 2021 19:14:30 +0000 https://lauravanderkam.com/?p=17907#comment-188684 In reply to Laura Vanderkam.

You are giving me something to thing about! I think this mode of planning has to do in part with billable hours. I’m an attorney and I usually try to get all my billable hours done from the hours of 9 to 7, with an hour and a half lunch break (on break now!) in which I generally relax and/or exercise. Usually work planning is at least part billable (I might be reviewing case deadlines and figuring out next steps for example) but personal planning is not. I could bill time later into the evening or weekend to make up for it, but I used to do that and found it depressing. There’s this constant pressure I feel not to take my eye off the billable hour timer, even if it’s a couple of minutes. If I have, for example, a dentist appointment during the work day, I try to schedule it at lunch and that’s my lunch break. I do have a stay at home spouse, however, and I’ve been back in the office full time since June, which keeps work and home a bit more separated. BUT I recently made partner and I am not as wedded to the billable hour anymore. I may have to try integrating life a bit more now!

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By: Laura Vanderkam https://lauravanderkam.com/2021/01/friday-planning-and-the-spinning-plates/#comment-188619 Mon, 01 Feb 2021 13:57:29 +0000 https://lauravanderkam.com/?p=17907#comment-188619 In reply to Ellie.

@Ellie – I tend to wind up using Friday morning for planning, rather than Friday afternoon, partly because of the loose end issue. I often do an email triage Friday afternoon, starting around 2-3 p.m., which means that plenty of people respond to what I send out right around 4 p.m. However, I suggest “Friday afternoon” for many people because there tend not to be many meetings then, and also, planning doesn’t have to take that long. I am talking 15-20 minutes. If it helps to be fresher, then Friday morning could certainly be an option.

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By: Laura Vanderkam https://lauravanderkam.com/2021/01/friday-planning-and-the-spinning-plates/#comment-188618 Mon, 01 Feb 2021 13:54:21 +0000 https://lauravanderkam.com/?p=17907#comment-188618 In reply to Maggie.

@Maggie – I assume people still have to plan work project time lines and such. People plan workouts, they plan personal organization projects, they plan family weekend activities that are still available… lots of things can still benefit from planning!

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By: Laura Vanderkam https://lauravanderkam.com/2021/01/friday-planning-and-the-spinning-plates/#comment-188617 Mon, 01 Feb 2021 13:53:01 +0000 https://lauravanderkam.com/?p=17907#comment-188617 In reply to Kersti.

@Kersti- I’m interested to see how many people plan work and personal at totally separate times. In my mind we have one block of time, and unless there is complete and total separation (which is the case for far fewer folks now with so many people working at home) then the two will affect each other. A later work meeting means that’s not a good night for some personal project. Some family/self related stuff has to happen during business hours, and so that would affect the allocation of work priorities. Once you get into planning mode, it wouldn’t add many minutes to address both. So I’m really intrigued to see how common this two-time approach is!

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By: Maria https://lauravanderkam.com/2021/01/friday-planning-and-the-spinning-plates/#comment-188409 Sun, 31 Jan 2021 17:19:20 +0000 https://lauravanderkam.com/?p=17907#comment-188409 Monday morning planner here. I use Saturday morning and often little bits of time throughout the weekend to tackle loose ends from the week and admin-type things. Then Monday I rollover the week and dive right in….

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By: Maureen https://lauravanderkam.com/2021/01/friday-planning-and-the-spinning-plates/#comment-188159 Sat, 30 Jan 2021 13:17:25 +0000 https://lauravanderkam.com/?p=17907#comment-188159 I use Sunday mornings for planning the week. I work part-time outside the home on Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays, so the combination of getting things done at work and Friday night family movie nights didnā€™t work well for planning the following week. Sunday mornings tend to be slow ā€” even now with the kids being 12 and 14. Since I do grocery shopping on Tuesdays, it works well for me.

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By: Ellie https://lauravanderkam.com/2021/01/friday-planning-and-the-spinning-plates/#comment-188087 Sat, 30 Jan 2021 08:21:53 +0000 https://lauravanderkam.com/?p=17907#comment-188087 I tried for Friday planning but Friday afternoon seems to be the moment where all my colleagues are waking up and answering my emails / requests so I end up tying up a lot of loose ends on Friday afternoons and canā€™t get in planning mode. šŸ™ Monday morning is my planning time for work (thatā€™s my way of easing in a new week of work, feeling in control of what will come up). For private stuff Sunday morning is the most quiet time as kids watch cartoons but as the day is not over, some tasks are still pending. So I usually do a bit in the morning and finish up later in the day.

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By: Maggie https://lauravanderkam.com/2021/01/friday-planning-and-the-spinning-plates/#comment-187975 Fri, 29 Jan 2021 22:31:54 +0000 https://lauravanderkam.com/?p=17907#comment-187975 I am impressed by all the planning and goal setting. Especially in these times where everything is so limited, I basically only meal plan. That’s on Tuesdays because of the Farmer’s Market.

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By: Irene https://lauravanderkam.com/2021/01/friday-planning-and-the-spinning-plates/#comment-187944 Fri, 29 Jan 2021 19:41:14 +0000 https://lauravanderkam.com/?p=17907#comment-187944 I also do my work planning on Sunday afternoon, when my kids take a nap. In our house the rule is that you need to stay in your room during the nap time whether you are sleeping or not. If they follow the rules, they would then get to do a fun art project with mommy after nap – something like painting, coloring, crafting, etc. An activity that we choose, and I actively supervise/engage into.
So i use the Sunday nap time as some time for myself, to go over my schedule for the upcoming week, and prioritize the time for deep work, review project deadlines, and create to-do lists. If i have any time left, i might as well use this time to look up some travel destinations for us for the upcoming holidays/ school breaks/mini-vacations. We are not taking any flights this year, so i am trying to be creative and find some things for us to explore within 2-6 hours of driving.

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