Comments on: Before you commit to a daily habit… https://lauravanderkam.com/2023/12/before-you-commit-to-a-daily-habit/ Writer, Author, Speaker Mon, 11 Dec 2023 17:55:47 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.7.2 By: Cara https://lauravanderkam.com/2023/12/before-you-commit-to-a-daily-habit/#comment-487776 Mon, 11 Dec 2023 17:55:47 +0000 https://lauravanderkam.com/?p=19388#comment-487776 In reply to Laura Vanderkam.

This is really for me I found this really helpful… advice… Do it a bit less time.. and no you don’t always need a tech solution… and pain is a good reminder… good thing to notice and make a priority to eliminate and be honest about … I enjoyed and think this is very helpful to suggest hey do it for less time; memorize it, move away from pain… thank you!!! Takes courage to put yourself and your ideas out there!!

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By: Laura Vanderkam https://lauravanderkam.com/2023/12/before-you-commit-to-a-daily-habit/#comment-487469 Fri, 08 Dec 2023 15:50:11 +0000 https://lauravanderkam.com/?p=19388#comment-487469 In reply to Vanessa.

@Vanessa- sometimes 20 minutes can be hard to commit to in life, especially if it’s something that needs to be done exclusively (I’m not worried about 30 minutes of listening to Bach next year because I can do that in the car or while working). Maybe 10 minutes a few times a week might be good to aim for and you can always go longer on days you are feeling it!

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By: Vanessa https://lauravanderkam.com/2023/12/before-you-commit-to-a-daily-habit/#comment-487391 Thu, 07 Dec 2023 21:58:52 +0000 https://lauravanderkam.com/?p=19388#comment-487391 I want to make prayer/meditation a daily habit, but maybe it’s more realistic to work on 3x a week and then trying to turn it into a daily habit or 3x a week for 20 minutes and 4 days a week 10 minutes? I think my block is that I want to get it in before my kids wake up and that usually doesn’t happen. There are other times that I scroll my phone (when laying with my kids to sleep), but that time doesn’t feel super conducive for prayer either. I’ve been successful with making other forms of prayer a 3x a week habit, but it’s the 20 minutes of silent prayer that I struggle with. I probably need to commit to doing it before bed if I can’t wake up early enough. I want it to be as easy as brushing my teeth, but I find it challenging (I remember you talking about meditation) even though I believe it’s necessary.

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By: Laura Vanderkam https://lauravanderkam.com/2023/12/before-you-commit-to-a-daily-habit/#comment-487362 Thu, 07 Dec 2023 14:01:01 +0000 https://lauravanderkam.com/?p=19388#comment-487362 In reply to Anne.

@Anne – thanks! Or asking if you’d do it on vacation. Vacations are real days too, so anything that’s daily would need to work on vacations…

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By: Laura Vanderkam https://lauravanderkam.com/2023/12/before-you-commit-to-a-daily-habit/#comment-487361 Thu, 07 Dec 2023 14:00:31 +0000 https://lauravanderkam.com/?p=19388#comment-487361 In reply to Michele T.

@Michele T – I came up with a sequence of stretches + exercises based on various things my trainer had done with me over the past few months. I was in pain and decided to just try doing it every day for a while. The first two weeks were just sheer discipline – put it on the to-do list each day and do it. But now I’m starting to see a little improvement which is highly motivational. I still write it on my daily to do list though. I may do that for a while until it truly is mindless.

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By: Michele T https://lauravanderkam.com/2023/12/before-you-commit-to-a-daily-habit/#comment-487327 Thu, 07 Dec 2023 02:50:49 +0000 https://lauravanderkam.com/?p=19388#comment-487327 How did you get yourself to incorporate the back exercises so seamlessly? Are they on a print out or app? I’m wanting to add this to my habits list too.

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By: Anne https://lauravanderkam.com/2023/12/before-you-commit-to-a-daily-habit/#comment-487320 Thu, 07 Dec 2023 01:39:10 +0000 https://lauravanderkam.com/?p=19388#comment-487320 I love this perspective! A birthday is a great example for this question. It made me ponder what habits I do every day without fail.

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