I truly loved this project. I enjoyed it in a way that I have to say I didn’t love my Jane Austen project (sorry!) or even Shakespeare. Bach is truly my favorite composer, and it isn’t even close. Also, the way I did this project felt different than my past reading ones. Because I was listening to Bach, it massively upgraded the sound track of my life. I was sitting in my office reading Shakespeare but I was listening to Bach while shuttling my kids around or running errands. The opportunity for improvement in this time was just much greater!

I definitely feel more familiar with Bach’s work as a result of this (of course). From my years in choirs I was familiar with some of those masterworks (like the Christmas Oratorio, or the B-Minor Mass) but less so with his instrumental works. I think there are lots of ways one could construct this project, but since I listened to the major vocal works after listening to 200+ church cantatas, I learned more of Bach’s themes that he would re-use, and some of his favorite ways of composing multi-part vocal pieces. I was also reminded of some of the pieces I’d heard before but enjoyed getting to hear again (like the Brandenburg Concertos).

I have also found myself feeling grateful for the internet! When I started exploring how I would do this project last fall, I wasn’t entirely sure how I would find all of Bach’s work to listen to. I’d found a boxed CD set that one of the classical publishers put out there back in the day, so that was my back-up, and I sort of assumed I’d find performances of the major works on Apple music. But then I realized that the best source for performances was YouTube AND that the Netherlands Bach Society had done a project called “All of Bach.” I am not sure if they actually hit all of Bach, but they’d done enough of the more obscure works that I was only really hunting around for a few.

I’ll now spend the last weeks of the year revisiting favorites. Specifically, I’m listening to the B-Minor Mass on repeat as I’m planning to perform it with a local choir in late December. I’ll listen to the Christmas Oratorio too, just to celebrate the season. And I’ll try to figure out what project I’m undertaking next year. I’m not sure what I’ll come up with that will be as exciting to me as Bach, but I’ve got time to figure this out.

Of course, as we hit the last 100 days of the year, this means I’m nearing completion of this year-long project. Which leads to the question…what should I do next?

In 2021, I read War and Peace at the rate of one chapter a day. In 2022 I read all the works of Shakespeare (at a pace of about 3-4 pages with small type per day). In 2023 I read all the works of Jane Austen (at a pace of about 10 pages per day – I finished in September since it turned out I miscalculated on this one). And this past year I’ve been listening to approximately 30 minutes of Bach daily.

Whatever I choose for 2025 needs to fit a few criteria:

*It needs to be worth doing (as I believe all the previous projects have been!). I want to read or listen to work that is generally seen as classic and important.

*I need to be excited about it (I’m just not that into Mozart…sorry!).

*It also needs to be doable. Some people’s lifetime works might actually take more than a year to consume at a sustainable pace. I can probably read for about 20 minutes a day. Listening is a little easier to do more since I can have it running in the background (like in the car). Obviously there is some ambiguity here as I could have listened to performances of Shakespeare’s plays but…anyway.

So, I welcome suggestions! You can post or can always email me (laura at lauravanderkam dot com). My timeline for a decision is the Best Laid Plans Live retreat in early November, as I try to have a rough draft of next year’s goals by then…

In other news: We celebrated my 2nd kid’s birthday this week! He turned 15. After he finished a 5k in a cross country meet, we had his favorite foods for dinner, which included lobster tails, a caprese salad, and mac and cheese. He asked what time exactly he was born, and it turns out it was 10:07 p.m. (per the birth certificate). That reminded me that the same doctor delivered him and his older brother. After kid #2 was born, she congratulated me and told me “I’m so happy I could help you complete your family.” Haha. Of course, this was in NYC where the maternity ward was so crowded (we were 9 months after Christmas…) that the baby and I wound up staying in a room in the urology ward where they posted a guard in front of the door (as there was no other security, as there is in the mother/baby unit). It was like we were famous. Memories! It’s been fun watching him become a runner. He’s definitely faster than his mom.

I also listened to the Christmas Oratorio this week. I wound up listening more than once because the first video I’d chosen wasn’t really my favorite. It’s a frequently performed work so not everyone does it as well as it could be done. I wound up settling on the JS Bach Foundation version. I’m a big fan of the opening chorus to the 5th part. So catchy. That powered me through a strength training session the other day. I should be going to a Bach concert this weekend put on by an early music group, so I’m looking forward to that.

Meanwhile….I took my 14-year-old (almost 15-year-old!) to a running store last night to get fitted for better running shoes. He’s been running on the high school cross-country team for the last few weeks and his coach pointed out that he was over-pronating so we went to get some more stabilizing shoes. It was quite the involved experience (he tried on like 8 pairs!) but we left with one he liked. And several pairs of running socks because, hey, we were there.

It’s been fun to watch him do this sport, which I’m now realizing would have been a fairly accessible high school or middle school sport to do. Like on an average day they do some warm-ups then go for a 45-minute run. That sounds like a very pleasant way to end a school day! Not that dissimilar to what I do now.

Although I’ve actually been running in the morning more lately. Now that no one usually needs to be up before 7 a.m. if I pop up early enough, I will go run 2 miles on the treadmill. I’ve been aiming to do some speed work during these sessions. I’m really, really slow (my “speed” is like 7 mph) but hopefully it will help. I do another long run this weekend, but probably not quite as long because I’m planning to do a hike with an area trails association too. Hopefully tonight will be fairly chill (such as it ever is) because it’s been a long week. I went to two back-to-school nights this week, but those are now over. We hit all four! I also feel like I’ve been doing a lot of paperwork. The two high school kids will go to NYC with their school music program this spring and I need to register for that and I was somewhat blindsided by the paperwork volume for an activity for the 9-year-old. I signed him up for an after-school robotics activity, but since it’s run by the official aftercare provider, I had to do everything to register for that as a childcare agency – like the various agreements, vaccination record, getting the app from the childcare provider with a pin to check him out (as did everyone else who might check him out), etc. Whoa.

In the meantime, here’s this week’s content… Over at the Best of Both Worlds Patreon community page, I just posted the recording of our book club discussion on Jodi Wellman’s You Only Die Once. Membership is $9/month and we have multiple discussion threads going each week on issues related to work and life. Please check it out!

The Before Breakfast podcast featured my longer episode where I interview Sarah Hart-Unger about mornings and routines. I also have an episode advising to “Check if you’ll need to reschedule” and one on the idea to “Start a goal club.”

At Vanderhacks I wrote that “Complaining is boring.” I suggested that one might “Map out a busy season.” And behind the paywall I noted that “Procrastination happens” — but here are my tips for getting things done anyway. Next week I’ll be starting my video posts (I believe usually on Tuesdays but we shall see).

Thanks for reading!

This week’s episode is our 2024 mid-year check in. I’m happy to report that Sarah and I have both achieved some of our bigger goals for the year. Sarah ran a Boston qualifying marathon in May (beating the required time by 5 minutes!). I sold my next non-fiction book (in a 2-book deal, which was a nice bonus). So we had a lot to celebrate.

Some other things are more…in progress. I’d hoped to have made progress on my back issues, but after a huge setback in January, it’s more about eking out whatever progress I can and figuring out how to live my life with it. Sarah has definitely made progress on her estate planning, but decluttering? Well, there’s still 6 months to go!

Please give the episode a listen. How are you doing on your 2024 goals? Mid-year is a great opportunity to check in on how things are going. You can celebrate what’s happened, and decide whether you want to recommit on anything that hasn’t happened, or whether you’d like to pivot to something new. You are in charge!

(PS: Here’s my write-up of the 2024 goals episode)

In this episode, Sarah and I share our hopes and dreams for the coming year. We look at different domains: work, relationships, self. We talk about habits and routines. Sarah shares a unique take on “24 for 24” which she hopes will help inspire some new experiences this year.

We’d love to hear about your goals as well! We will also revisit our own goals this summer with a mid-year check-in, and next winter with our “2024 year in review” episode. Knowing we’ll be recording these future episodes helps keep us on track. Even if you’re not recording a podcast, you might consider setting some check-ins through the year to see how you’re doing.

Please give the episode a listen, and as always we welcome ratings and reviews. We’ve also been excited to see our Patreon community grow over the past few weeks. 2024 will be an exciting year for Best of Both Worlds, so stay tuned!