resolutions Archives - Laura Vanderkam https://lauravanderkam.com/tag/resolutions/ Writer, Author, Speaker Tue, 25 Jun 2024 18:12:33 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.7.2 https://lauravanderkam.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/02/cropped-site-icon-2-32x32.png resolutions Archives - Laura Vanderkam https://lauravanderkam.com/tag/resolutions/ 32 32 145501903 Best of Both Worlds podcast: Mid-year check in, 2024 https://lauravanderkam.com/2024/06/best-of-both-worlds-podcast-mid-year-check-in-2024/ https://lauravanderkam.com/2024/06/best-of-both-worlds-podcast-mid-year-check-in-2024/#comments Tue, 25 Jun 2024 13:05:04 +0000 https://lauravanderkam.com/?p=19615 Now that Best of Both Worlds is almost 7 years old (yep!) Sarah and I have a few traditions. Every December, we devote an episode to our goals for the upcoming year. Then, in June/July, we devote an episode to a mid-year check in. How are we doing? What have we achieved? What are we still working on? What isn’t happening, and do we want to pivot?

This week’s episode is our 2024 mid-year check in. I’m happy to report that Sarah and I have both achieved some of our bigger goals for the year. Sarah ran a Boston qualifying marathon in May (beating the required time by 5 minutes!). I sold my next non-fiction book (in a 2-book deal, which was a nice bonus). So we had a lot to celebrate.

Some other things are more…in progress. I’d hoped to have made progress on my back issues, but after a huge setback in January, it’s more about eking out whatever progress I can and figuring out how to live my life with it. Sarah has definitely made progress on her estate planning, but decluttering? Well, there’s still 6 months to go!

Please give the episode a listen. How are you doing on your 2024 goals? Mid-year is a great opportunity to check in on how things are going. You can celebrate what’s happened, and decide whether you want to recommit on anything that hasn’t happened, or whether you’d like to pivot to something new. You are in charge!

(PS: Here’s my write-up of the 2024 goals episode)

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January wrap-up, plus Tranquility by Tuesday update https://lauravanderkam.com/2021/02/january-wrap-up-plus-tranquility-by-tuesday-update/ https://lauravanderkam.com/2021/02/january-wrap-up-plus-tranquility-by-tuesday-update/#comments Mon, 01 Feb 2021 14:27:44 +0000 https://lauravanderkam.com/?p=17909 I am writing a draft of this on Sunday afternoon (baby nap time) as the snow falls outside my window. We may be in for several inches. We went for a family walk as the snow began falling earlier. There was some whining about the cold — but oh, is it pretty. Fresh-falling snow is what makes winter worth it. (And yes, I say this as the person who shoveled the driveway on Monday morning right before I’m posting this!)

This first month of the year has been cold and dreary— and yet very good. On January 1st I began a new daily streak of what I am calling my “rituals.” I read a chapter of War and Peace (Tolstoy’s epic has 361 very short chapters). I write at least 100 words in my “free writing file.” I do some strength work: squats, kettle bell swings, etc. I did these rituals all 31 days of January. This is a pace that feels sustainable, so I hope to keep going through the rest of the year. I also did the hill work and speed workouts from my Many Happy Miles program every week. I ran 6.7 swift miles outside in 18 degree weather early Saturday morning. Putting those little hand warmers in my gloves helps a lot. Given that January is never a great month for running, I’m happy that I kept these resolutions.

I am moving forward in the house project, choosing appliances, plumbing fixtures, floor tiles, even a make of toilet that will go in every bathroom (when you buy an old house…you wind up fixing a lot). I keep thinking that I am glad I am a satisficer rather than an optimizer. I did not let the thought enter my head that I should choose a different toilet style for different bathrooms.

Work has felt slightly more sustainable now that I am down to two podcasts. I started the year a little sad about this, but winding down The New Corner Office was a good decision, especially since the virtual speaking business pace has picked up. Unlike in-person speaking, virtual work doesn’t need to have any seasonality to it. Pre-2020, most of my business happened between March and May, and then from September to mid-November. Trying to fly 500 people to Minneapolis in January for a conference would just be an exercise in masochism, but virtual events can happen at any time. I’m really interested to see how this will play out over the next few years. One of the month’s highlights: being on the Drew Barrymore show (and her calling herself an uber-fan)! I managed some little adventures, going to two art museums and to Longwood Gardens’s lovely greenhouse. We took some family walks. The kids had some outdoor playdates.

And I finished the Tranquility by Tuesday pilot project….Which brings me to the second part of this post’s headline! I’m now enrolling people for the full version of the Tranquility by Tuesday project — a study that will form the basis of my next book. People who participate take an introductory survey (5-10 minutes) that covers how they spend their time and how they feel about their time. Then, over the next nine weeks, I introduce nine different time management strategies. Each week, participants take two short (2-3 minute) surveys: one about how they plan to implement the strategy, and then a follow-up one about how those plans went. After nine weeks, they take a final survey. The time line for this phase is mid-February to late April.

Responses will be used (without names) in the Tranquility by Tuesday book. If there was a particularly good story, I would follow up to do a more extensive interview, and ask for permission to use names. Participants must be 18 years or older, but I welcome people of any demographic beyond that: kids, no kids, grown kids, employed, not currently working for pay, men/women/etc. I still need about 100 more people (I asked the folks who tried to enroll in the fall after the pilot capped out first). If you are interested and can commit to the full nine weeks you can sign up here. Thank you!

Update: Thanks to all who have expressed interest in the Tranquility by Tuesday project. Signups are now closed.

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Best of Both Worlds podcast: Goals 2020 https://lauravanderkam.com/2019/12/best-of-both-worlds-podcast-goals-2020/ https://lauravanderkam.com/2019/12/best-of-both-worlds-podcast-goals-2020/#comments Tue, 31 Dec 2019 20:53:24 +0000 https://lauravanderkam.com/?p=17462 Another Tuesday, another podcast episode, but since it’s New Year’s Eve, we knew we had to talk 2020 goals! In this (short!) episode, Sarah and I discuss our resolutions and plans for 2020. From doing “mommy days” with our big kids, to taking some cool trips and possibly even running a marathon, we’ve got our sights on big things.

I know the whole New Year’s concept is completely arbitrary. Today is Tuesday and tomorrow is Wednesday and there is not some big wall in time between the two. Most people will be back at work (or school, or normal life) by Thursday, doing whatever it was they were doing before the holidays.

However, I think it’s still fun to celebrate the clean slate and think about fresh starts. And I’m personally getting a jump start on my Q1 relationship goal of welcoming the new baby and helping us adjust to being a family of seven! I hope you have big goals and dreams for 2020 and I wish you the best of luck on making them come true.

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