Comments on: Friday miscellany: Icy morning https://lauravanderkam.com/2022/02/friday-miscellany-icy-morning/ Writer, Author, Speaker Tue, 01 Mar 2022 07:36:23 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.7.2 By: Sarah K https://lauravanderkam.com/2022/02/friday-miscellany-icy-morning/#comment-319251 Tue, 01 Mar 2022 07:36:23 +0000 https://lauravanderkam.com/?p=18455#comment-319251 In reply to Laura Vanderkam.

Those are some really good suggestions- thank you! I like the idea of a recurring donation. Right now I am contemplating giving up social media for Lent. The only thing I “need” it for is for some of my kids classes where the parent communication mainly happens on Facebook.

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By: Laura Vanderkam https://lauravanderkam.com/2022/02/friday-miscellany-icy-morning/#comment-319102 Mon, 28 Feb 2022 16:37:41 +0000 https://lauravanderkam.com/?p=18455#comment-319102 In reply to Sarah K.

@Sarah – that is hard when there is something you care about immensely. What I’ve seen some people do is give monthly recurring donations to 2-3 groups doing work in the space that you know are doing good work. You can trust that they are going to use your money wisely, and if there is some new way your money would be helpful, they will be on it. You can also set a certain time budget, like I’m going to devote 1-2 hours per week to this cause. Each week you can think about what you want to do – but aim more for pro-active than just responding to whatever people are posting online. Like you identify a few legislators and write them this week and then next week some others and then the week after that you do something else. You’ll feel like you’re doing what you can to make a difference, but you aren’t giving it time you don’t have.

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By: Sarah K https://lauravanderkam.com/2022/02/friday-miscellany-icy-morning/#comment-319043 Mon, 28 Feb 2022 11:27:20 +0000 https://lauravanderkam.com/?p=18455#comment-319043 I relate to what you say about doom-scrolling/media. I have a pet political issue that I care about immensely (but am not myself a politician or important to the issue) and I can get really sucked in to the social media posts about the issue. I hate that, but I also don’t want to disconnect from it entirely, because I want to comment/contribute $/sign petitions for it etc. I want to stay involved without it eating up all my free time.

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By: Alba https://lauravanderkam.com/2022/02/friday-miscellany-icy-morning/#comment-318704 Sun, 27 Feb 2022 06:47:59 +0000 https://lauravanderkam.com/?p=18455#comment-318704 I am currently reading 4000 weeks. I also wondered what was your take on it. I would love if you can make a review.

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By: Rachel https://lauravanderkam.com/2022/02/friday-miscellany-icy-morning/#comment-318373 Sat, 26 Feb 2022 03:54:07 +0000 https://lauravanderkam.com/?p=18455#comment-318373 I’m also very curious about your thoughts on 4000 weeks. My daughter thought it was a game changer, but for me not so much. I feel like I’ve absorbed a lot of what he says from you and Cal Newport among others. Be intentional with your time, time opportunity cost, time passes anyway you might as well strategically plan some fun. I’d like to hear your take.

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By: Elisabeth https://lauravanderkam.com/2022/02/friday-miscellany-icy-morning/#comment-318280 Fri, 25 Feb 2022 20:07:34 +0000 https://lauravanderkam.com/?p=18455#comment-318280 My kids still get snow days…with no online learning. I can’t decide if I like this (I’m not a fan of juggling all the devices) or if it would be easier (at least they have someone else directing part of their day).
Today was such a snow day and it was brutal. I had a lot of work, they were antsy because Monday was a holiday.
I will say I don’t think my two kids absorb anything during online learning (most of the time seems to be spent on classmates dealing with tech issues), so I often feel ready to throw all the laptops out of the nearest window…

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By: Linda https://lauravanderkam.com/2022/02/friday-miscellany-icy-morning/#comment-318249 Fri, 25 Feb 2022 17:33:06 +0000 https://lauravanderkam.com/?p=18455#comment-318249 I’m curious about your thoughts on 4000 Weeks. I’ve been slowly reading through it in-between my fiction reading so I haven’t finished it but it seems like his thoughts on time are very different than yours. I’d love for you to do a review on this book. Stay warm this weekend. It’s chilly here in the pacific northwest as well.

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