Comments on: October weekend mix (plus September books and dental fun) https://lauravanderkam.com/2018/10/october-weekend-mix-plus-september-books-and-dental-fun/ Writer, Author, Speaker Mon, 15 Oct 2018 20:28:07 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.7.2 By: Erica https://lauravanderkam.com/2018/10/october-weekend-mix-plus-september-books-and-dental-fun/#comment-45865 Mon, 15 Oct 2018 20:28:07 +0000 https://lauravanderkam.com/?p=16984#comment-45865 I recently read a door stopper book I think you would really enjoy. “4321” by Paul Auster. It’s 866 pages. It’s four parallel story lines of one boy named Archie Ferguson, who lives in New Jersey and New York (and one of his story lines goes to Princeton!). It’s set during the 50’s and 60’s. It was a beautiful book!

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By: Kirsten https://lauravanderkam.com/2018/10/october-weekend-mix-plus-september-books-and-dental-fun/#comment-45827 Mon, 15 Oct 2018 00:44:41 +0000 https://lauravanderkam.com/?p=16984#comment-45827 I noticed in your list of 100 dreams that you were intrigued by the early humans, Denisovans etc., and now in this post you mention that you are in a book slump (yes, I’m reading out of order today) – well, I’ve been reading David Reich’s ‘Who we are and how we got here,’ which is about the use of ancient DNA to understand human population movements and mixing. He interweaves the genetic evidence with archaeological and anthopological evidence and theories, and it is compelling reading! I’d highly recommend it.

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By: BethC https://lauravanderkam.com/2018/10/october-weekend-mix-plus-september-books-and-dental-fun/#comment-45594 Wed, 10 Oct 2018 14:49:33 +0000 https://lauravanderkam.com/?p=16984#comment-45594 I’m jealous of your fall weather! In North Carolina it’s still about 90% humidity and 80 degrees. Ugh!! Please come soon, fall. I love colder weather biking and running, and can’t seem to get myself motivated when it’s hot. So I’m anxiously awaiting the change of season.

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By: Ana https://lauravanderkam.com/2018/10/october-weekend-mix-plus-september-books-and-dental-fun/#comment-45567 Tue, 09 Oct 2018 17:59:14 +0000 https://lauravanderkam.com/?p=16984#comment-45567 I’m definitely more concerned about safety than visibility running in the dark early morning, and quite honestly I just don’t do it unless I have a friend to join me. I like the recs above, though, and will keep in mind, because even evening running is pitch black in the winter and I could see myself doing that one day.

I remember really liking Guernsey when I read it (years ago). Schaffer died before finishing, so Burrows (family member, I think) took over & got it published (she’s mostly a children’s book author) which may be why the ending didn’t live up to the previous parts?

Dental work sucks. I had a multi-step many week issue this summer and ugh. the worst.

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By: Laura Vanderkam https://lauravanderkam.com/2018/10/october-weekend-mix-plus-september-books-and-dental-fun/#comment-45556 Tue, 09 Oct 2018 12:57:45 +0000 https://lauravanderkam.com/?p=16984#comment-45556 In reply to Catherine.

@Catherine – you could have kept our kid average up! We talked about the importance of simply taking (or asking for) accommodations. Just because no one has done something before (like work from home while being pretty high up in the Federal Reserve, to take one example) doesn’t mean it can’t happen. We talked about the metaphor of glass balls vs. bouncing balls. Don’t drop what you’ve identified as important, but other stuff can go. We talked about how many people operate from an assumption that paid childcare is “bad” and must be minimized, but that can lead to problems, so best to think in terms of managing a team at work, and managing a team at home. Pay well (in both cases!) to get good people. We talked about how the little years are very hard (especially if you’re a first time mom) but it does get easier and you develop skills along the way. So a lot of the usual stuff, but I thought it was a very well managed panel.

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By: Laura Vanderkam https://lauravanderkam.com/2018/10/october-weekend-mix-plus-september-books-and-dental-fun/#comment-45555 Tue, 09 Oct 2018 12:53:28 +0000 https://lauravanderkam.com/?p=16984#comment-45555 In reply to SHU.

@SHU – I’ve encountered dogs off leash on park trails and that’s always a tense moment for me. I mean, dogs like to chase things that run, and while the owner usually catches up some amount of time later to report how friendly the dog is, I don’t know that upon encountering a strange, unleashed dog in the woods.

And the cars…I don’t know why people drive as crazy as they do in a residential neighborhood. Slow down, people!

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By: SHU https://lauravanderkam.com/2018/10/october-weekend-mix-plus-september-books-and-dental-fun/#comment-45522 Mon, 08 Oct 2018 22:44:30 +0000 https://lauravanderkam.com/?p=16984#comment-45522 I will admit I run in the dark and I need to be better about visibility. My father in law (walks dog in our neighborhood) told Josh I was basically invisible the other morning! Oops. I’m actually much more fearful of a dog off leash than I am of a car in our little neighborhood . . .

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By: Catherine https://lauravanderkam.com/2018/10/october-weekend-mix-plus-september-books-and-dental-fun/#comment-45516 Mon, 08 Oct 2018 20:37:14 +0000 https://lauravanderkam.com/?p=16984#comment-45516 I’d be interested in a recap of the She Roars panel. Sorry I missed it!

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By: Amy https://lauravanderkam.com/2018/10/october-weekend-mix-plus-september-books-and-dental-fun/#comment-45515 Mon, 08 Oct 2018 20:35:45 +0000 https://lauravanderkam.com/?p=16984#comment-45515 Karen beat me to it … definitely the Noxgear Tracer 360. It’s like a vest made from super thin tubes. Think glow in the dark bracelet. When I’m out running my neighborhood in the dark, I can see the moment when cars see me .. they immediately move further away. I’ll put in a plug that they’re also good at dusk, or for early mornings when it’s past daybreak but gloomy or foggy. For what it’s worth, I do often run alone in my neighborhood.

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By: Sarah K https://lauravanderkam.com/2018/10/october-weekend-mix-plus-september-books-and-dental-fun/#comment-45507 Mon, 08 Oct 2018 18:07:35 +0000 https://lauravanderkam.com/?p=16984#comment-45507 I drive a short distance to meet friends to run in the morning. The benefits of this are having running buddies for safety but we also meet in the parking lot of a hospital so there are lights and some activity with nurses and patients arriving for early procedures, and even when the weather is terrible we can count on the hospital to clear their sidewalks!

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