Comments on: Friday miscellany: Orlando, turning 12… https://lauravanderkam.com/2023/10/friday-miscellany-orlando-turning-12/ Writer, Author, Speaker Tue, 17 Oct 2023 12:22:36 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.7.2 By: Laura Vanderkam https://lauravanderkam.com/2023/10/friday-miscellany-orlando-turning-12/#comment-482965 Tue, 17 Oct 2023 12:22:36 +0000 https://lauravanderkam.com/?p=19308#comment-482965 In reply to Sara.

@Sara – totally get it. You wind up with flexibility, but you had to work hard to get there. I had a conversation recently with a woman at a major think tank (she may read this, so hi!) and she remarked how strange it was that there were so few women with that job, given that it is 100 percent flexible. But of course the issue is she had to become a thought leader to get the job, with all the publishing, research, speaking, TV punditry etc. required to get that designation. That is all difficult to do, and may not provide work/life balance in the process.

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By: Sara https://lauravanderkam.com/2023/10/friday-miscellany-orlando-turning-12/#comment-482918 Mon, 16 Oct 2023 23:57:18 +0000 https://lauravanderkam.com/?p=19308#comment-482918 I completely agree with the substance-before-balance point. I teach at the university level and thus have a fairly flexible schedule. However, the years in graduate school, on the job market, and on the tenure clock (also flexible) were too difficult for work-life balance to have been a sufficient motivating factor for this career choice. Bottom line: I love teaching young adults and am willing to do enough research to make that possible (currently working toward taking on more research projects about which I am truly passionate).

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By: Laura Vanderkam https://lauravanderkam.com/2023/10/friday-miscellany-orlando-turning-12/#comment-482058 Fri, 06 Oct 2023 19:52:59 +0000 https://lauravanderkam.com/?p=19308#comment-482058 In reply to Grateful Kae.

@Kae – I have a spreadsheet with all the episode titles, descriptions, and air dates. I know I’ve covered similar broad topics many times (like, say, planning) but I try to change the angle at least a little. And yep, I do search!

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By: Laura Vanderkam https://lauravanderkam.com/2023/10/friday-miscellany-orlando-turning-12/#comment-482056 Fri, 06 Oct 2023 19:51:58 +0000 https://lauravanderkam.com/?p=19308#comment-482056 In reply to Elisabeth.

@Elisabeth – we had a heat wave here this week (well, for October) so it was about the same in Orlando as in Philly!

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By: Grateful Kae https://lauravanderkam.com/2023/10/friday-miscellany-orlando-turning-12/#comment-482051 Fri, 06 Oct 2023 19:43:15 +0000 https://lauravanderkam.com/?p=19308#comment-482051 Curious logistics question… how do you organize your “tips” for Before Breakfast to keep straight which topics you’ve covered already? Seems like it would be really challenging after a while with so many episodes! Especially since some topics are very nuanced and can be covered from various angles, etc. Just wondering if you keep some sort of spreadsheet that you search first to make sure you aren’t repeating or…. ? I would never be able to remember what I already talked about or not!

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By: Elisabeth https://lauravanderkam.com/2023/10/friday-miscellany-orlando-turning-12/#comment-482021 Fri, 06 Oct 2023 16:17:37 +0000 https://lauravanderkam.com/?p=19308#comment-482021 Happy Birthday to your daughter. My 12-year-old daughter is turning 13 in March and she is definitely channeling the teenage vibe early (if you know what I mean!).

I’ve only been to Florida once in my life – the dead of winter 2010 – and it was FREEZING. It was actually warmer back home in Eastern Canada than Florida and when we got back home there were signs in the grocery store about how there was a big fruit shortage because of a freak deep freeze in Florida and I was like: “Yup. I know all about that…”

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