Comments on: Weekly relationship priorities https://lauravanderkam.com/2017/02/weekly-relationship-priorities/ Writer, Author, Speaker Tue, 17 Apr 2018 14:01:17 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.7.2 By: Daikuro @ SimplicityBlogger.com https://lauravanderkam.com/2017/02/weekly-relationship-priorities/#comment-34061 Thu, 09 Feb 2017 02:29:52 +0000 http://lauravanderkam.staging.wpengine.com/?p=6456#comment-34061 I love the idea Laura. I think that it is a good way to enrich your relationships and keep track. After all, we can get lost in all the things we need to do. I will try this.

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By: lauravanderkam https://lauravanderkam.com/2017/02/weekly-relationship-priorities/#comment-34060 Wed, 08 Feb 2017 18:20:11 +0000 http://lauravanderkam.staging.wpengine.com/?p=6456#comment-34060 In reply to Anne M.

@Anne M – thank you for showing the talk! Yeah, busy season accountants might be a tough audience, though I do still think there is *some* time. And then there will be more in July. All about keeping the long term view.

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By: Anne M https://lauravanderkam.com/2017/02/weekly-relationship-priorities/#comment-34059 Wed, 08 Feb 2017 14:40:02 +0000 http://lauravanderkam.staging.wpengine.com/?p=6456#comment-34059 Re: Your Ted talk. I run the monthly staff meetings at my firm and try to incorporate a Ted talk now and then for inspiration. Last month I showed yours and the room was dead silent afterwards. As a public accounting firm about to enter into busy season I think it may have shocked everyone to think they do actually have enough time. I did get some positive feedback later in the day so that was cool.

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By: Marcia (OrganisingQueen) https://lauravanderkam.com/2017/02/weekly-relationship-priorities/#comment-34058 Wed, 08 Feb 2017 12:51:39 +0000 http://lauravanderkam.staging.wpengine.com/?p=6456#comment-34058 I have as monthly relationship priorities: 1 date with my husband, and separate dates with each twin.

In addition, I usually have about 4 – 6 friend dates a month.

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By: Cb https://lauravanderkam.com/2017/02/weekly-relationship-priorities/#comment-34057 Wed, 08 Feb 2017 09:52:29 +0000 http://lauravanderkam.staging.wpengine.com/?p=6456#comment-34057 In reply to lauravanderkam.

I did some fieldwork in Belgium and everyone arrived at 9, took a lunch break where they went to the canteen together, and left promptly at 5. Staying later than that / working at the weekend would have been really unusual. Coming from a UK academic context, I was thoroughly confused.

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By: lauravanderkam https://lauravanderkam.com/2017/02/weekly-relationship-priorities/#comment-34056 Tue, 07 Feb 2017 20:40:11 +0000 http://lauravanderkam.staging.wpengine.com/?p=6456#comment-34056 In reply to ARC.

@ARC – if everyone’s out by 4:30, then I’m all in favor of staying there. But people do need some sort of break – a sit down lunch with colleagues will do that. Desk salads, not so much.

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By: ARC https://lauravanderkam.com/2017/02/weekly-relationship-priorities/#comment-34055 Tue, 07 Feb 2017 18:15:32 +0000 http://lauravanderkam.staging.wpengine.com/?p=6456#comment-34055 In reply to Maureen.

ohhh, i LOVE the photobook idea. My husband worked at a company that had one for a while in the cafeteria and it was super fun. 🙂

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By: ARC https://lauravanderkam.com/2017/02/weekly-relationship-priorities/#comment-34054 Tue, 07 Feb 2017 18:14:41 +0000 http://lauravanderkam.staging.wpengine.com/?p=6456#comment-34054 In reply to lauravanderkam.

@Laura – a friend of mine works at a small company in Copenhagen and I got the impression that No One Leaves there either – they order in lunch and all sit down together, and everyone leaves by 4:30, so maybe it’s in the interest of efficiency and also because you’re supposed to socialize with your coworkers at lunch?

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By: Maureen https://lauravanderkam.com/2017/02/weekly-relationship-priorities/#comment-34053 Tue, 07 Feb 2017 17:29:20 +0000 http://lauravanderkam.staging.wpengine.com/?p=6456#comment-34053 My husband and I met at work, and we used to have monthly lunches together where we even went to a photo booth for pictures over coffee.

We haven’t done pictures in a few years (the photo booths became scarce), but we have reinitiated the monthly lunch date. It’s still a challenge to schedule. I work part-time and am in the same office building only once a week, but it felt good to get it back on the books again.

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By: lauravanderkam https://lauravanderkam.com/2017/02/weekly-relationship-priorities/#comment-34052 Tue, 07 Feb 2017 16:46:37 +0000 http://lauravanderkam.staging.wpengine.com/?p=6456#comment-34052 In reply to jennie.

@jennie- that sounds like a good list of priorities. The kids’ social calendars are their own beast!

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