Comments on: I crossed the NaNoWriMo finish line https://lauravanderkam.com/2014/11/crossed-nanowrimo-finish-line/ Writer, Author, Speaker Tue, 17 Apr 2018 14:11:53 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.7.2 By: Laura https://lauravanderkam.com/2014/11/crossed-nanowrimo-finish-line/#comment-29068 Tue, 25 Nov 2014 15:55:07 +0000 http://localhost:8888/?p=5120#comment-29068 In reply to Kathy.

@Kathy- congrats on starting the process! I think the best advice is just to be patient. Keep moving forward and you will finish a draft. It won’t be that great, but so what? Over time, you can make it better. You can make it better on your own, and you can hire people to help make it better. There are lots of options.

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By: Kathy https://lauravanderkam.com/2014/11/crossed-nanowrimo-finish-line/#comment-29067 Tue, 25 Nov 2014 15:13:32 +0000 http://localhost:8888/?p=5120#comment-29067 Congratulations on finishing! I appreciate the sheer practicality of many of your posts…they feel very down-to-earth, and “you can do this if you really want to.”

Several things you said in this post resonated with me (paraphrased): time is elastic, it’s easier to turn something into something better than to create something, and that you wrote fast when you turned off your inner critic. These things are encouraging to me because I’ve been (not) working on a book idea for years, and I’ve finally started *actually* working on it. I’m finding it both easier and harder than I expected, but now that I have a plan in place, I’m finally seeing that it really is possible.

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By: Laura https://lauravanderkam.com/2014/11/crossed-nanowrimo-finish-line/#comment-29066 Tue, 25 Nov 2014 14:07:41 +0000 http://localhost:8888/?p=5120#comment-29066 In reply to The Frugal Girl.

@The Frugal Girl – Exactly. If something doesn’t exist, it can’t be perfect. Indeed, existence is a pretty necessarily part of any quality whatsoever.

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By: Arden https://lauravanderkam.com/2014/11/crossed-nanowrimo-finish-line/#comment-29065 Tue, 25 Nov 2014 12:51:59 +0000 http://localhost:8888/?p=5120#comment-29065 In reply to Emily.

@Emily – A year or so ago I read about the Facebook “Done is Better Than Perfect” quote and have really taken that to heart. Particularly at work, I found myself going over and over something when it really was fine. I’ve not had one person give something back because it wasn’t perfect. This has really helped my productivity at work.

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By: The Frugal Girl https://lauravanderkam.com/2014/11/crossed-nanowrimo-finish-line/#comment-29064 Tue, 25 Nov 2014 12:44:33 +0000 http://localhost:8888/?p=5120#comment-29064 In reply to Laura.

Yeah, it’s kind of like Anne Lamott’s shitty first draft idea. If you can’t get something out onto the page, you will never get anywhere because there’s nothing to even edit!

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By: Laura https://lauravanderkam.com/2014/11/crossed-nanowrimo-finish-line/#comment-29063 Mon, 24 Nov 2014 23:40:58 +0000 http://localhost:8888/?p=5120#comment-29063 In reply to Emily.

@Emily – interesting question. I think there is a time and place for the inner critic to shine in her full glory. That time is not when you’re trying to get something down. I’m a big fan of writing something, then coming back to it and letting the inner critic work her magic. She is necessary to keep one from spewing complete crap. But if she prevents anything from existing in the first place, then that’s a problem.

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By: Emily https://lauravanderkam.com/2014/11/crossed-nanowrimo-finish-line/#comment-29062 Mon, 24 Nov 2014 21:57:29 +0000 http://localhost:8888/?p=5120#comment-29062 I too am very interested in the effects of the “inner critic.” I find myself editing myself all the time, whether in emails, writing, or planning. What if I stopped second guessing myself? Would my work quality suffer? Or would I get much more done?

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By: Laura https://lauravanderkam.com/2014/11/crossed-nanowrimo-finish-line/#comment-29061 Mon, 24 Nov 2014 21:10:50 +0000 http://localhost:8888/?p=5120#comment-29061 In reply to Arden.

@Arden – I doubt it’s laziness, for you or ARC. It may be that the things you don’t do you just don’t want to do! There’s nothing wrong with that. I keep thinking I should take some sort of group exercise class. And then I realize I don’t actually really want to do it.

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By: Arden https://lauravanderkam.com/2014/11/crossed-nanowrimo-finish-line/#comment-29060 Mon, 24 Nov 2014 20:33:39 +0000 http://localhost:8888/?p=5120#comment-29060 In reply to Laura.

I’m not sure. Interesting question. I do follow through on some major things (for instance: grad school which was severely life sucking). Lazy? It’s easier to do research on my butt than to actually put it into action?

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By: ARC https://lauravanderkam.com/2014/11/crossed-nanowrimo-finish-line/#comment-29059 Mon, 24 Nov 2014 19:35:14 +0000 http://localhost:8888/?p=5120#comment-29059 Yay NYT and for finishing Nanowrimo! Early, even 🙂 I can’t believe you finished one day in 35 minutes – that’s amazing.

I am also interested in Arden’s suggested topic, though for me the reason is my fear of failure/perfectionism that leads to “why bother starting”. Working on that 😀

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