Comments on: Weekend: How we make me-time https://lauravanderkam.com/2019/11/weekend-how-we-make-me-time/ Writer, Author, Speaker Fri, 27 Mar 2020 16:59:57 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.7.2 By: Tana https://lauravanderkam.com/2019/11/weekend-how-we-make-me-time/#comment-97911 Tue, 03 Dec 2019 13:52:44 +0000 https://lauravanderkam.com/?p=17424#comment-97911 I’m glad to hear you stayed home while your husband went and did something fun with the kids (the Friday night gig). I always feel a twinge of guilt about that, but sometimes what I need most is just a quiet house.

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By: Laura Vanderkam https://lauravanderkam.com/2019/11/weekend-how-we-make-me-time/#comment-97790 Mon, 02 Dec 2019 19:36:46 +0000 https://lauravanderkam.com/?p=17424#comment-97790 In reply to Audrey Julienne.

@Audrey – I spend some of my time doing laundry and cooking/cleaning on weekends (as does my husband) but it really doesn’t take that much time. Here and there 15 minutes on my time log.

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By: Audrey Julienne https://lauravanderkam.com/2019/11/weekend-how-we-make-me-time/#comment-97697 Mon, 02 Dec 2019 06:37:31 +0000 https://lauravanderkam.com/?p=17424#comment-97697 This sound like a lovely weekend, and I couldn’t help but imagining how my sister (and her 1-husband, 3-kids, 1-dog, 1-cat, 2-hamsters, many-fish family) could inspire from it. Somehow, all I could think of is when do you do house chores? I feel like when my sister is not working or taking care of the kids, she’s always cleaning or doing laundry…

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By: Cb https://lauravanderkam.com/2019/11/weekend-how-we-make-me-time/#comment-97175 Thu, 28 Nov 2019 13:43:05 +0000 https://lauravanderkam.com/?p=17424#comment-97175 My husband has been ill so I’ve been looking after our toddler and on Sunday, I walked to the grocery store just to be alone. 20 minute walk listening to a podcast, a stroll through the shop, and a 20 minute walk home and I did feel better.

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By: A https://lauravanderkam.com/2019/11/weekend-how-we-make-me-time/#comment-96851 Tue, 26 Nov 2019 20:22:35 +0000 https://lauravanderkam.com/?p=17424#comment-96851 In reply to Laura Vanderkam.

True! I think the hard part about it, I suppose is how you value breastfeeding outside of the pure financials. How do you value the health benefits vs. bonding with Dad if bottle feeding (or pump and feed)? Or not sleeping. Especially when it’s something you’ve never done before.
So complicated! I guess I’ll learn soon enough :).

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By: Laura Vanderkam https://lauravanderkam.com/2019/11/weekend-how-we-make-me-time/#comment-96683 Mon, 25 Nov 2019 19:04:45 +0000 https://lauravanderkam.com/?p=17424#comment-96683 In reply to Lisa of Lisa’s Yarns.

@Lisa – good call to skip the 3-4 hours in a kid-free house with a toddler. It will just feel miserable!

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By: Laura Vanderkam https://lauravanderkam.com/2019/11/weekend-how-we-make-me-time/#comment-96682 Mon, 25 Nov 2019 19:02:17 +0000 https://lauravanderkam.com/?p=17424#comment-96682 In reply to Jennifer T.

@Jennifer T – congrats on getting those Christmas cards written! We ordered and received ours, but have not gotten to the writing stage yet 🙂

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By: Laura Vanderkam https://lauravanderkam.com/2019/11/weekend-how-we-make-me-time/#comment-96680 Mon, 25 Nov 2019 19:01:03 +0000 https://lauravanderkam.com/?p=17424#comment-96680 In reply to A.

@A – interesting question! I just find it fascinating that various breastfeeding promotion literature touts it as “free.” Um, only if you value the mother’s time at nothing. I have breastfed all my babies and plan to nurse this one too but there is definitely an opportunity cost to turning down travel in, say, March because the round-the-clock pumping sounds like a giant pain.

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By: Laura Vanderkam https://lauravanderkam.com/2019/11/weekend-how-we-make-me-time/#comment-96678 Mon, 25 Nov 2019 18:55:35 +0000 https://lauravanderkam.com/?p=17424#comment-96678 In reply to Lori C.

@Lori C – yep, I hate wasting food and money which means that bulk buying holds limited appeal for me. I have tried sending my husband with a “do not buy” list but on some level…not a fight worth having.

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By: Laura Vanderkam https://lauravanderkam.com/2019/11/weekend-how-we-make-me-time/#comment-96677 Mon, 25 Nov 2019 18:54:17 +0000 https://lauravanderkam.com/?p=17424#comment-96677 In reply to Linda.

@Linda- I’m with you on this one, which is why I did not go (and told my husband he didn’t need to go! But…he likes it). Actually, in general I’ve been discouraged from making the Costco trips for my family, as I am an under-buyer and I’ll just refuse to pick up giant packages of tortillas and such.

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